tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6099161620950219026.post6725669022989073552..comments2023-05-18T03:01:45.832-05:00Comments on From Under the Weeping Willow: She'll Never KnowMandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16782799551687845797noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6099161620950219026.post-67461018087632590012012-07-09T14:24:58.715-05:002012-07-09T14:24:58.715-05:00Nika,
The wonderful thing, if it can be called wo...Nika,<br /><br />The wonderful thing, if it can be called wonderful in this situation, is that no one has walked in your shoes before. Even though I've also lost two I don't feel the same pain as you have with your two losses. So there is no one out there who can judge you. You get to make the rules as you go. Balance is a delicate thing and for me not always achievable - I just do the best that I can. <br /><br />You will do fine because I am 100% confident that you have more than enough love to see this baby and your family through whatever may come your way.Mandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16782799551687845797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6099161620950219026.post-84310814688673687712012-07-06T17:25:10.696-05:002012-07-06T17:25:10.696-05:00"I hope that her childhood is not tinged with..."I hope that her childhood is not tinged with the protective and fearful emotions left behind after her brothers' deaths. Yet I do hope that someday in the future she can appreciate how special it is that she was born at all."<br /><br /><br />I've been thinking the same kinda thing lately. I'm so nervous about this baby being born, but I think it's every thing after the birth that scares me the most. Wondering how I'm going to figure out this parenting thing while trying to find some kinda balance between this world and the two babies before him.Nika M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15716308480356654189noreply@blogger.com